Life and Thoughts of The One Ocean

I Wonder Why ?

You will never know if you are right for someone or not… 100%... See One of the couples I knew … After 15 years of marriage the wife one day woke up and looked at her husband sleeping beside her and she did not like the man who was in her bed, who was snoring, the man who she fell in love with head over heals when she was 20 and married when she was 21. The man who was her best friend her lover and her husband and not to mention the father of her children! But today lying next to him she felt that she didn’t know at all who this man was and why she had given him her body, her love, her happiness and given up her family for… Who was he? She dint know and worst of all she didn’t know why she was in his bed. They got divorced. The children used to call me uncle because I saw them grow up only a few houses down from my house in my neighbourhood and I feel sorry for them, but their mother left them and before she left she had a huge battle to fight with herself. She knew that the man in her life was a good father but he was not a good husband. She realized that if she stayed with him any longer she would completely loose who she was. Completely be destroyed by him as a woman and would hate her life and think it not even worth living. She knew that he would be good to the kids and would take care of them and she had nothing to worry about and she was right… It’s been about 3 years already since she left him. The kids are growing up. He hasn’t remarried, although I think he is dating now. I don’t know how long it took him before he started dating again. I don’t know where that woman is now. I haven't talked to the man in about a year. The wife used to talk to me right before and during their divorce, probably as she talked to anyone in the neighbourhood that cared to listen. Then one day she was gone. I don’t know how he coped with the kids and what he is doing now or how he is managing now. I simply haven't been to their house anymore since he is not as friendly a neighbour as he once was, or maybe it was his wife that was the friendly neighbour always saying hello to everyone! I don’t know. All I do know is that a woman can never be 100% certain about anything until its over and Only then she knows for sure... Just Because she can look back at her life and ask herself if it was all worth it; all the sacrifices she made, all the actions she took and all the decisions she made. Pity the men who have to live with uncertain women!
Women who Think they know what they want, what they are doing and believe that they are right in doing so, but realize its not and they had been wrong all long. But by then its already too late and they have altered lives of others permanently. Perhaps even scared them emotionally.

Do you know of an uncertain woman?

posted by The One Ocean @ 3/22/2005 09:33:00 AM